Saying Their Names: Navigating the weight of loss with Griffin Cares

At fertilyfe, we talk a lot about Intentional Coping. Often, that means finding ways to make it a great day even when it feels impossibly heavy. But to truly move forward, we must first honor and validate the space we’re in.

For those navigating the agony of miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss, carrying that weight can feel incredibly isolating.

That’s why I this week’s episode of the fertilyfe podcast is so important. I sat down with Paul Caine, co-founder of Griffin Cares, a foundation dedicated to honoring Paul and Pam’s son, Griffin, by supporting families through pregnancy and infant loss.

We had a deeply moving conversation about community, Remembrance Day, and how we carry our stories forward. Some highlights:

• Saying Their Names: The profound power of speaking our loved one’s names out loud as an act of intentional coping.

• The Wave of Light: The power of global connection, ever October 15th, to remember the light we all hold within - and how it beams brighter when supported by community.

• Validating the Weight of Grief: The necessary part honoring grief.

• Carrying the Story Forward: Integrating our past into a life of purpose.

• Support Groups as a Safe Harbor: Finding communities where everyone “gets it.”

• The “Journey” vs. The Life Path: Reframing the word “journey” into a life-long walk we do together.

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